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Give me a breakdown of the definition of affective or  emotional empathy.
What are the various types of affective or emotional empathy?
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Breakdown of Affective (Emotional) Empathy

Affective empathy, also called emotional empathy, is the ability to deeply feel and share another person’s emotions. It enables individuals to experience others’ emotional states as if they were their own, fostering compassion, social bonding, and ethical behavior.

A. Personal Distress

1. • 1. Definition:

        1. Personal distress is a self-focused response to another person’s suffering, where the observer feels overwhelmed or anxious due to the emotional intensity they perceive. Unlike empathic concern, personal distress may lead to avoidance rather than prosocial behavior.

     2. Examples:

        1. A doctor feels emotionally drained after repeatedly witnessing patients in distress, leading to burnout.

        2. A person watching a tragic news story becomes overwhelmed and avoids further exposure to similar content.

     3. Verified Quotes:

        1. “Empathy’s downside is that personal distress can paralyze rather than motivate.”
           – Daniel Goleman

        2. “Compassion is the most powerful weapon against personal distress; it turns pain into action.”
           – Matthieu Ricard

B. Empathic Concern (Compassionate Empathy)

1. • 1. Definition:

        1. Empathic concern is the ability to feel compassion for others in distress and take action to help. It is outwardly focused and motivates prosocial behavior, making it distinct from personal distress.

     2. Examples:

        1. A volunteer helps refugees settle into a new country, driven by a deep sense of concern for their struggles.

        2. A teacher goes out of their way to support a grieving student, ensuring they feel heard and cared for.

     3. Verified Quotes:

        1. “Empathy is seeing with the eyes of another, listening with the ears of another, and feeling with the heart of another.”
           – Alfred Adler

        2. “The highest form of knowledge is empathy, for it requires us to suspend our egos and live in another’s world.”
           – Bill Bullard

C. Somatic Empathy

1. • 1. Definition:

        1. Somatic empathy occurs when an individual physically experiences another person’s emotions or pain. This form of empathy can manifest as bodily reactions, such as tears or a tightening in the chest when witnessing another’s suffering.

     2. Examples:

        1. A person involuntarily tears up when they hear someone crying.

        2. Someone flinches when they see another person getting injured, as if they physically feel the impact themselves.

     3. Verified Quotes:

        1. “You can only understand people if you feel them in yourself.”
           – John Steinbeck

        2. “Our nervous systems are wired for empathy—we physically resonate with others’ emotions.”
           – Frans de Waal

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